24 Oct2023April 15, 2026
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Developmental Milestone vs Developmental Capacity: Why we need to use both terms when discussing a Psychodynamic Framework like the Greenspan/DIR™ Model

When learning Dr. Greenspan’s Greenspan/DIR™ Model, or as it is referred to in its final version, The Learning Tree, it is important to understand why Dr. Greenspan used various terms such as stages, levels, milestones, and capacities in his 40 books referring to the Social-Emotional Developmental Levels/Stages/Milestones/ Capacities he became so famous for identifying and...

18 Oct2023October 5, 2026
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Independence vs Interdependence: Which Should we Prioritize for Children?

“…if a child has been isolated in his own world, nothing is better than to have him want to be with a parent or caregiver ‘too much.’ Once children are in relationships, we can gradually help them learn to be independent.” — Dr. Stanley Greenspan Engaging Autism, Page 18 For most children, especially those with...

12 Oct2023April 15, 2026
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How Children Learn to Self-Regulate: Co-Regulation and Counter Regulation

Many doctors and therapists believe that a child’s self-regulation comes from allowing the child to calm themselves down when stressed.  Unfortunately, this belief leads to parents/caregivers being told to, While some of these parental responses can lead to a change in the child’s behavior, if they are used early in life, before a child has...