16 Feb2024April 15, 2026
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Where do Children Learn Social Skills, At School or at Home?

Research shows, and professionals agree, that having social interest and developing social skills are necessary for long term social-emotional health.  However, there seems to be a common misconception that schools and ‘peer modeling’ are responsible for a child’s social skill development.  While that would make everyone’s lives easier, it is simply not true. Social skills...

07 Feb2024October 5, 2026
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Communication and Language development rely on the development of the motor System

“We believe this is due to a primary biological challenge in connecting their emotions to their motor systems or motor planning. Because they can’t sequence their actions under the guidance of their desires, they may want closeness but can’t figure out how to translate that desire into action (communication).” — Dr. Stanley Greenspan Engaging Autism,...

16 Dec2023October 5, 2026
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“Relate, Communicate, and Think”

“With this approach, children learn to master critical abilities missed or derailed along their developmental path—namely, the ability to relate to others with warmth and pleasure, communicate purposefully and meaningfully… and, to varying degrees, think logically and creatively.” — Dr. Stanley Greenspan Engaging Autism, Page 3 Dr. Stanley Greenspan defined Floortime as an intervention that...

16 Dec2023October 6, 2026
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“Who’s Doing the Thinking?”

“The principle in encouraging two-way communication and social problem-solving is to inspire the child to do something to you the therapist or caregiver—to take initiative, rather than you doing something to the child.” — Dr. Stanley Greenspan Engaging Autism Page 94 If you were lucky enough to have experienced a consultation with Dr. Greenspan, whether...

07 Nov2023April 15, 2026
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Developmentally Appropriate Play: Is it More Important than Age-Appropriate Play?

Developmentally appropriate play is different from age-appropriate play. Age-appropriate play is determined by looking at a child’s chronological age and determines what types of toys and activities a child should be using and participating in to match their peers interests and abilities. Developmentally appropriate play first looks at the child’s abilities to communicate, move their...

24 Oct2023April 15, 2026
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Developmental Milestone vs Developmental Capacity: Why we need to use both terms when discussing a Psychodynamic Framework like the Greenspan/DIR™ Model

When learning Dr. Greenspan’s Greenspan/DIR™ Model, or as it is referred to in its final version, The Learning Tree, it is important to understand why Dr. Greenspan used various terms such as stages, levels, milestones, and capacities in his 40 books referring to the Social-Emotional Developmental Levels/Stages/Milestones/ Capacities he became so famous for identifying and...

18 Oct2023October 5, 2026
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Independence vs Interdependence: Which Should we Prioritize for Children?

“…if a child has been isolated in his own world, nothing is better than to have him want to be with a parent or caregiver ‘too much.’ Once children are in relationships, we can gradually help them learn to be independent.” — Dr. Stanley Greenspan Engaging Autism, Page 18 For most children, especially those with...

12 Oct2023April 15, 2026
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How Children Learn to Self-Regulate: Co-Regulation and Counter Regulation

Many doctors and therapists believe that a child’s self-regulation comes from allowing the child to calm themselves down when stressed.  Unfortunately, this belief leads to parents/caregivers being told to, While some of these parental responses can lead to a change in the child’s behavior, if they are used early in life, before a child has...